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Saturday, September 05, 2009

September Mendez News

Howdy folks. Hope you are having better weather than we are. 'Cause it's cold, it's rainy and foggy and gross, which means we have two very active toddlers cooped up indoors all the time. That can lead to a lot of craziness in our house!

So what happened in August? Well, I finished my certification course and took the exam portion of the class and passed! I still have to deal with the case study portion and other written assignments, but those aren't due until early October. A good thing, because I'm going to need every single second of that time!

In general, we've had a pretty quiet month here. As I mentioned before, it's pretty cold and gross - because while you guys in the US are enjoying the beautiful last days of summer, winter is in full force down in the Southern hemisphere.

Since we've been indoors a lot, I've been wracking my brain for new activities to keep the kids entertained. Lily is so cute, she is very jealous of everything that Abby gets to do, and has to do it too. So far I've scrubbed crayon marks off the walls, the dollhouse, the table, oh and Lily herself. She likes to eat the markers (don't worry they're nontoxic), so she's been banned from those because she kept biting off the tips with her little teeth. That of course would tick Abby off because her markers are all ruined. You know, typical sibling spat type stuff.

Here are a couple pictures of the girls finger-painting. Lily LOVED it. Ended up needing a bath, but she had a great time.


Yes, don't worry it was all nontoxic (a good thing, cause Lily liked to eat the paint too), and came off easily with baby wipes.

Also this month, Joel made a "Man of the House" decision that we were getting out of Santiago for a weekend. "We" as in Him and Me. No Children allowed. What a fabulously smart husband I have. So we found a great vineyard that was having a huge sale on their hotel rooms (cause who in their right minds goes to a vineyard in the middle of the winter?) Well, we do. The whole ride there, we discussed which local vineyards we would try out, what we wanted to do and see. But you know what we ended up doing? Nothing. We ate lunch, had a quick nap before massages, then had dinner, then went back to sleep.

And slept til morning.

With no little ones waking us up or needing milk or diaper changes or having nightmares, or needing to sleep in Mommy's bed and ending up kicking us all night.

It was absolute pure heaven. Seriously I think that was the best sleep I've had since . . . wow. Since before I got pregnant with Lily.

So anyway, we had a fabulous breakfast and stopped in the nearby town for a few minutes, just to say we actually did something, and then headed home to two little girls that squealed for ten minutes when they saw us. It was a great homecoming.

The food and wine were excellent, by the way. And the room was SOOO cool. We had our own fireplace (needed it, it was cold that weekend), and it was so nice. Maybe next time we'll actually stay awake long enough to enjoy it all. I've already made a "Woman of the House" decision that we will be doing this more often. If getting a hotel room is what it takes for me to get one great night of sleep a month, then I don't care what it costs.

Joel's been crazy busy at work this month, just working working nonstop. I've been working on business stuff too, and keeping busy with clients. Joel has found some new football buddies to watch football with, so as long as I provide the munchies, I'm mostly off the hook for having to watch it too. Unless of course it's VTech against Alabama, cause the other folks are VTech fans. (Roll Tide!) And we've turned into Sci-Fi nerds and are eagerly awaiting new seasons of Fringe, Heroes, Lost, etc. And I've gotten thick with a bunch of scrapbookers here in Santiago. We get together often and it's quite fun. I'm currently working on the album of our cruise last March.

Abby is still going to school everyday and loving every minute of it. I'm starting to meet some of the other mothers of the kids in the class, and they are slowly starting to deal with my pathetic Spanish. I even found one that speaks English too, hallelujah. Everyone is so amazed when they listen to Abby speak Spanish, especially when they know that I can't speak Spanish worth spit. I think she has Joel's ear for languages. She goes back and forth from Spanish and English effortlessly and even translates for me sometimes, even though she'd rather speak Spanish if she had her choice. Amazing. I am making her speak to me in English to keep her skills up.

Here are some pics of Abby. This is what we do when she gets too wild for us. She loves it.




Now, one day this month I turned around and wham! Lily went from being a "baby" to being a "toddler." Totally threw me for a loop.

This little girl is fiery and opinionated. She does not like to get left out of anything, so she's constantly yelling to get to do whatever Abby does. Two weeks ago she turned into EVIL queen, and then I realized, oh, she's got two new molars. The girl has six teeth now on the top, and just two on the bottom. And those suckers are sharp. We are constantly on her to stop biting everyone and everything. I don't want her to be labeled "a biter" in preschool.

(Speaking of, we got some kid kicked out of Abby's preschool class because he was attacking Abby. First he bit her face so hard he left teethmarks, and then he clawed her face. She still has little scars from his fingernails gouging her cheek. Needless to say, my inner Warrior Princess came out and was ready to kick serious tail, but the administrators caved pretty durn quickly instead. Sometimes it's nice to have that "I am a US Diplomat" thing to throw around. They want us to be happy so more of our friends will come to the school, and they can talk about how they educate the children of the US Embassy. Whatever. As long as it works.)

Lily isn't really walking on her own yet. She cruises holding onto furniture, and will walk holding just one of your hands. She doesn't seem to be in too much of a hurry. But she is TALKING. Let's see, she says "Mama, Papa (that's Joel, they say Papa here instead of Dada), no, pan (bread), bowwowwow (anytime she sees a dog), mas (more), and globo (balloon). She also will do the signs for "more" and "please." So her first language looks like it's going to be Spanish too. It just amazes me.

And even though she's a fiery little cuss, she is a total snugglebear. Our housekeeper calls her "Baby Teddy Bear" in Spanish. She also calls her "Little Rat" but it sounds much cuter in Spanish. She will pucker up and give you a kiss if you ask for one, so we do it all the time just because it's so adorable. She loves music and dancing, and will bounce her whole body with the music. And she is FINALLY starting to get out of her obsessively clingy phase. I thought that was never going to end.


So, up for us in September is a ton more work, then Abby has a week off from school for a Chilean holiday (pray for me that I don't go insane), I've got to complete all of my certification coursework, and all of the other normal craziness. I've got to start planning for Halloween too to make sure we get the costumes in time. I can't believe it's that time of year already.


Talk to you all soon,


Love,

Julie, Joel, Abby, Lily

Monday, July 27, 2009

August Mendez Update

'Cause I want to hurry up and get this update out to you guys, this month you're gonna get just a photo update. Don't worry, we have a ton of photos for you anyway!

Fourth of July was freezing here. So, we went to the mall, ate McDs, and took the kids to burn off steam at the arcade with the new neighbors. Can't get more American than that, right? LOL

Abby with her Happy Meal
On a ride at the arcade

Oh, and this is my little couch potato in training!

We had a two week "winter break" from school in July, and during that time we got our first snow!
Look at that little pouty lip stick out. Just like she's saying,
"Can't YOU make them stop this nonsense?"
We also spent a lot of time at the playground when the weather was good.
And Joel reminded me we haven't really shown you guys alot of sightseeing type shots. So here is a beautiful one of the snow in the Andes.
Lily still isn't walking on her own yet. She's not really sure she sees the point, especially when she has three adults in the house who are there to wait on her every whim and take her where ever she wants to go. (Really. She will take her finger and point where she wants you to take her, and woe betide you if you don't comply. Wooowee.) She is cruising around hanging on to things just fine now, though.

This is a picture of her "crawling" by sitting on her bum and pushing herself along. She's surprisingly fast.
And finally, here are my two snuggle-bunnies. Don't you just wanna eat them up?
That's all for now.
Love,
Julie, Joel, Abby, Lily

Lily Turns 1!

My little baby turned 1 year old. I'm still heartbroken that she's growing up.

First, a picture of the birthday girl.

So for Lily's birthday I had complete brain block. Couldn't think of a single thing that would be "perfect." We finally settled on one of those entertainment companies here in Santiago that will come to your house and do all the work for you. Worth every penny. All I had to do was to provide the food. We did salad and lasagna, and cupcakes. Easy-peasy.
First, was face-painting.
Then games and stories. Don't ask me why the entertainers showed up in a Princess Fiona from Shrek outfit, when we specifically asked for no costumes/characters. Lily was terrified and wouldn't get near them. Thank goodness the other kids didn't care.

Then, Lily started to get tired, so we skipped ahead to the cake. Yup, I made the cake all by myself! Thankfully, it was for a 1-year-old who didn't much care about the aesthetic value.
In hindsight, crowding around a very sensitive little girl who was overly tired and singing and clapping loudly was probably not the best idea. Completely freaked her out.
So, after that, we put Lily down for a nap and the party continued on without her.
We had a pinata for the kids to open.


And the entertainers did a puppet show. I was quite impressed that they tried very hard to speak English to the kids.

Once, the party broke up and the last family went home, Lily finally woke up from her nap and in a much better mood. And definitely ready to dig into the cake.
Here she's playing peek-a-boo with me while I take pictures.

Stuffing her face as fast as she can, just in case I change my mind.
And just look at this cute little happy face. Gotta love this girl!
Love,
Julie

Abby is 3 Years Old!

Abby had a FANTASTIC birthday week! (Oh, and we had quite a bit of fun, too.)


First, I made cupcakes and took them into Abby's classroom for snack time. By the way, if you ever need to make cupcakes, DO NOT use a box of Chilean cake mix. N-A-S-T-Y. Honestly, it makes me want to hurl. Luckily, I had a couple of boxes of American cake mix and icing left. The teachers were amazed at how good they were and wanted the recipe. God Bless Duncan Hines and the good ole USA.

So I hung out with Abby's little friends for a bit, and learned faces and names. I loved that the teachers made Abby go around the table and hand out the cupcakes to her friends herself.

And this is an awful picture, but here is the poster I had to make for Abby's class that day. Basically pictures of the important moments in her life. Birth, baby dedication, meeting her new baby sister, going on the cruise, that sort of thing.


THEN, FOR THE MAIN EVENT:

For months I had been planning this princess birthday party theme for Abby. Way back in February I had bought a ton of stuff while in the States. God Bless Michael's and Target and the Good Ole' USA. (Sense a theme, here?)


First, we decorated foam princess crowns with stickers. Stickers, 3-year-olds. Big hit.

Then we got little princess tutu skirts and each took our picture with a "real princess" (one of our neighbors).
Then, we colored princess pictures. Crayons, 3-year-olds. Can't go wrong.

After that, we decorated our cupcakes, and sang Happy Birthday. In English and Spanish.
So, Dad was manning the cameras, while I ran the party. Everyone had a great time, and I took a fabulous nap after cleaning up all the mess. Even Lily got in on the action.
That's the littlest princess in the house.
Okay, that's the Birthday Recap for Abby! Hope you all enjoyed it!
Love,
Julie

July Mendez Update

Hello all!

Okay, yes, I know that this a month behind. I'm completely to blame. Lately, I've been terribly overwhelmed by, well, everything. Too many things on my plate and just enough hours or energy in the day to deal with it all. So now, I'm attempting to play catch up a bit.

As another administrative note on this blog, I'm making a couple of changes. I will no longer be blogging about the girls individually each month on the date of their birth. It's just one of those to-do list items that has to go. If something interesting inspires me to write, you might get an extra post every once in a while, but that's about it. I'll be moving back to my once-a-month blog format because I think I can keep up with that schedule a bit better.

So anyway, back to updating about the month of June.

Joel wanted me to post this picture of his toy- I mean his car. It's a Kia Morning. Tiny little 4-door, but the gas mileage is FABULOUS. Like about $20 to fill the take every two weeks. Great commuter car, if you can ignore the "clown car" jokes. Seriously, I think we'll be looking for something very similar to this when we get back to DC.
And here is a great picture of the outside of Abby's school. Isn't it adorable? I can't tell you how much we love this school.

In June, they had a Father's Day celebration in Abby's classroom. Joel got to go and observe for a short while, plus work on an art project with Abby. Unbeknownst to him, the other dads must be engineers or something. Joel just thought the point was to have fun cutting and gluing with your kid. Nope the other dads were practically building trains and cars out of cardboard. Whatever. Abby had a good time. She still talks about Daddy coming to visit her school.
Lily really started to blossom during the month of June. She is a very caring little girl. She loves hugging everything. Here is a picture of her "loving" on one of the multitude of baby dolls in our house. She is great about "kissing" too, though you have to be careful she doesn't get overeager and bite your face off. The girl has SIX teeth and let me tell you, they HURT.
Here are a couple more Father's Day pictures:
This is the family on the way out the door for church.

After church we had a group of folks from our church over for Papa Joe's now world famous nacho dip (a hit wherever we live) and BBQ pork sandwiches. We never go wrong with that on the menu.
(Oh and those flowers you see on the table? Those were for our FIVE YEAR anniversary. I have no idea how that happened so fast. Amazing, huh? I woke up to flowers and chocolate by the bed, this huge arrangement downstairs, and went out to a swanky restaurant that night. It was a great day.)

And this is how we ended Father's Day. Why do I post this picture? 'Cause this NEVER happens. Lily never goes to sleep for Joel, only for me. And she just curled up with him and conked out. It's like a miracle. Or it could be the ESPN that knocked her out, dunno. Either way, way to go Joel!
And here is a random "hair" picture for you guys. We've finally convinced Abby that she has to let us brush her hair and put it in pony tails each day. She hates it, but we point out that all of her little friends that have them, and she doesn't like to be left out. As long as we let her play with Lily's hair while we do hers, all is well. (Note the little bow on Lily's head.) Lily's hair is growing in pretty well, though you can't see it in this picture, it's got little bitty curls in the back. She's gonna end up having much more frizz than curl, I think.

So, that's it for now! Enjoy!
Love,
Julie, Joel, Abby, Lily

Wednesday, June 03, 2009

June Mendez Update

Well, welcome to June, folks!

This past month was an active one for us. First, we took a week of from preschool and focused on potty training. And finally, Abby finally started to grasp the concept. I'm estatic to report that we are pretty much fully potty-trained! She's only had two accidents in the past week, one with Daddy and one at school (I don't count poop accidents that I didn't have to clean up, hahahaha)

Also this month was Mother's Day. Joel got me a gym membership for Mother's Day (and anniversary and birthday) and I've rejoined the ranks of the gym rats. I go 3-4 times a week now, and am really starting to drop the baby weight. Joel and I are also doing the South Beach Diet and that's helping as well.

What else did we do? Well, I got completely fed up with the idiotic layout of this ridiculous house and had an epiphany. And once I convinced Joel, we completely rearranged the entire house. The master bedroom, which was downstairs, we turned into the playroom. The old playroom we turned into Abby's room. And we moved our bedroom into Abby's bedroom. Yeah, completely and totally nuts. But, oh my goodness, the change in our house is amazing. I don't know if we just had bad fung shui before or what, but it just "feels" better now. The girls love their new playroom and almost never leave. I love that when the girls wake up three or four hours a night (yes, you read that right) I'm only making about five steps to each of their bedrooms, instead of trudging up and down the stairs each time.

Beyond all that, we've had a quiet month! We did take a short trip to the Buin (Santiago) zoo this month and that was fun. Abby loved the penguin in the seal animal show, and Lily was fascinated by the rooster in the petting zoo.

Here are a couple pictures from May:


Abby's "Brushing" Lily's Hair While Iris Brushes Abby's
A Very Rare Sight in Our House - Two Girls Sleeping at the Same Time

Abby Loved the Penguin at the Zoo. She Wanted to Take Him Home.


Lily's Already Trying to Get Mommy's Money Out of Her Purse.

Love,
Julie, Joel, Abby and Lily

Monday, May 25, 2009

Lily at 10 months

Well, the lens on our camera is broken yet again, so until we get it back, you guys don't get pictures. Sorry.

Because of my last post about Abby, the question of Lily's hair came up. And to answer all of you, she did have more hair than Abby did, but recently it's slowed down a bit, so I think quantity-wise it's about the same amount. Her hair is a different texture through; I think she might end up being more frizz than curls. Her hair sticks straight up and is just hilarious. I'm a good Mama though and wipe it back down for her.

What else is new with Lily? Well, she's mobile now. She doesn't really crawl, but she will scootch all over the house on her butt. And she's gotten pretty fast at it too. It really cracks me up. When she does get on her belly and attempt to crawl, it looks like what I call the "wounded Marine." She uses her elbows like she's crawling the through the mud, but only uses one leg - the other just drags behind like it's dead. (Don't worry folks, there's nothing wrong with her legs. She actually changes which leg she doesn't use from time to time.) Seriously, it's pretty funny to watch.

But it also means Joel and I spent this past weekend re-setting up all of our baby gates.

She's also standing up when we hold her hands now. She's not close to doing it herself yet, though. Hallelujah.

In other big news, Lily says Mama! Seriously! I'm loving every minute of that too. She says Dada and I think she knows that's Joel, but I'm not quite sure yet. Her other "word" is pointing to something and saying "da." As in "that."

She also loves to point. She will show you exactly what she wants and where she wants to go, and woe to you if you don't get it or take her there pronto. Cause that little girl has got a set of pipes on her, whoooweeee.

We went to the zoo this past weekend and Lily had a good time. She loved watching the animals - from a distance - and especially liked the rooster in the petting zoo. She made me chase that darn thing all over the place.

Well, I guess that's about all to say this time. She still doesn't sleep through the night, though it's getting a bit better. And she still only has two teeth.

Love,

Julie

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Abby at 34 months

I've had this idea in my mind for a while now, but thought this month I would blog about a very big thing our house now . . .

Hair.
(Keep reading, there's a punchline coming.)

Just refresh all of your minds, Abby was a bit of a bald baby, no matter how much I was in denial at the time.


And here she is on her first birthday.



By her second birthday, I was just so thrilled that she had enough hair for me to put tiny little pony tails in. I think I had despaired of Abby ever getting hair. But slowly, it finally started to grow.
Here is Abby in September, when we arrive to Chile.

Now I don't know what Abby's been eating, but WOW, has she grown some serious hair. It almost even reaches her shoulders now. Hair brushes and all of those hair doodads are hot commodities in our house.

November

December

And here is a recent picture:


So, remember when I said hair was a "big" topic in our house? Well, this is what I meant. Look at what we wake up to every morning:


I hope you all enjoyed that chuckle, too.
Love,

Julie