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Thursday, January 31, 2008

February Update from the Mendezes

January just whizzed by. Guess that's what happens when you're having fun . . . or puking. (If you don't get the puking joke, you really need to read the previous post on the blog!)

The puking has eased up, halleluiah. I'm back to most of my normal self. I've been spending most of my time trying to dig out of the disorganized cesspool I let everything get to when I took a twelve week break from, well, everything.

Abby is doing great. She is also officially almost off the bottle. She wouldn't self-wean, so we had to do the hard core cold turkey method. Not fun. Tears and tantrums and wailing and gnashing of teeth. I got to the point that anytime she starting crying I just handed her a cookie. She even got very good at saying, "Cookie" very clearly! But it was amazing, at the exact same time she went through a HUGE growth spurt and this sweet little angel turned into a voracious, human garbage disposal! She has been eating us out of house and home! You laugh, but one day I literally fed her from 7am until 6pm. She just never stopped eating. I was even worried that perhaps she had gotten some kind of tapeworm, until about a week later I noticed her onesies weren't fitting her. She grew like 2-3 inches all at once. It's crazy; I can't keep up with her.

She also decided that she was going to go on a napping strike for the past few weeks, and that was extremely rough. This girl needs her nap in order for her to function and for me not to lose my sanity. That turned into a nasty head cold though, which is hopefully run its course. I'm here to tell you that snot is nasty and gross, and when people tell you that poop and snot are cute and not so bad when it's your own kid; they LIE. Snot is Gross.
Okay, in good news about Abby - she's talking. She is picking up words right and left. It's funny how many of her new words have to do with food: pasta ("papa"), corn ("cor"), crackers ("kaker"), pretzel (don't even know how to spell how she pronounces that one), and cookie (that one is a very clear "COOKIE!") Plus "go" and "car" are new favorites. We also learned the sounds for elephant and snake and birds this month. She even does hand motions with some of them, which is pretty fun.

Besides all of that, I have been working on my scrapbooking and have finally begun Abby's baby album. I threw a surprise baby shower brunch for a girl in my Bible study, and Joel went to a poker night and I got to keep the winnings (hahaha). We also took a last minute weekend trip to Graz, Austria. There is supposed to be some great shopping there. It was supposed to only be a day trip, but well, we accidentally took the long way to get there and by time we arrive it was 3pm, so we found a cheap hotel and hit a grocery store for milk and diapers for Abby, and stayed overnight. The good news out of the adventure is we were able to eat at a very nice Spanish Tapas place for dinner.

So, that's been the major part of our month. Mostly we've been trying to get back in the groove after the holidays and start all the fun process and procedures for our upcoming move and the summer spent in Alabama having Junior. A move can never be simple and uncomplicated, of course. Well, hopefully we're starting early enough to get the worst out of the way so we can just enjoy the summer.

Coming up in February: tackling the potty-training monster, another trip to Aviano, getting more of the move details finalized, working on the dreaded taxes, and another OB appointment. Plus while you guys (in Alabama, anyway) are celebrating Fat Tuesday next week, we'll be celebrating Fasnik. That's when the kids here in Croatia dress up and go trick or treating, instead of Halloween.

Okay, a couple of pictures to tide you all over til next month:


Don't let this cute face fool ya. It's about the time I see this look, I start to think, "Oh no."

Joel shoveling snow in our driveway.

Abby playing in the snow in our backyard.

Learning all about the mysteries of Play-doh.

Abby after a full portion of pasta. She reminds me of that plant in Little Shop of Horrors: "Feed Me, Feed Me."

That's all from us. Happy Mardi Gras to all!

Love, Julie, Joel, and Abby

Friday, January 18, 2008

Mendez Family News

Well, even though it's almost the end of the month, I'd thought I'd explain why some of you might be wondering why I've been slow to answer emails, letters or calls.

Blame Junior.

Yep, that's right. The Mendez Clan is growing by one (Yes, we checked, just one!) and we're due August 4th. Monday will be the 12 week mark, and I'm happy to say that we've survived the first trimester, which is a huge event in our house. (This picture is from last week's sonogram, at 11 weeks.) So huge in fact, I'm going on a girl's night out next week to celebrate and watch all my friends drink in my honor! Hahaha!

To answer your questions:

a) Yes, we plan to find out the sex of the baby. No, we haven't found out yet, but not because we didn't try! Maybe my next appt, if Junior wants to show off.

b) Yes, we're thinking of names. If you have input, you can relate it to Joel, as he's doing most of the thinking right now. I've been concentrating on not puking.

c) Today I feel fine. Yesterday I lost two pounds before I went to bed. (Don't worry, I gained that the day before when I didn't puke.) It's kindof a day-by-day, minute-by-minute thing. You know it's bad morning sickness when you're debating which is more important - brushing your teeth or eating breakfast - because you know you can't do both.

d) Yes, I'm already in maternity jeans, but no, I haven't gained too much weight yet. Depends on the day and whether I've been puking alot (see c.)

e) Yes, I think Abby knows that something is up. She's become fascinated by babies lately, and has started to point to my belly, and ask, "Baba?"

f) Yes, we'll be back in the US to have the baby, most likely Fairhope, AL right now. And yes, the baby will be born right in the middle of our move from Croatia to Chile. Just like with Abby. Just like we swore we would never do to ourselves again. (Goes to show you, God does laugh when you make plans . . . )

g) Yes, we're excited. (Well, I'll be more excited when I stop puking.) The baby is doing well now, though we did have a little more excitement at the beginning than you really want with a pregnancy. But now he/she's all hunky-dory and growing well (1 1/2 weeks ahead - so a big baby). My OB is very nice and very good, and quick to tell me how beautiful he/she is. And of course I say, "Well, duh!

So that's our news!

Love to all,

Julie, Joel, and Abby

Wednesday, January 02, 2008

Happy 2008 from the Mendezes!

Yes, I'm flabbergasted too. How in the world did it get to be 2008 already? Sheez.

December around here was quite a whirlwind. The main topic of conversation: SANTA. And Abby was quite emphatic that she.did.not.like.him.at.all. Not one bit. Ever.

At the Embassy Holiday Party

Can't you just see her thinking, "You're a mean mommy"?
With the Santa in Aviano
In other interesting news; I'm done with my CLASS! Barely got my final project in on time, but who cares? It's done. (And Joel won the championship in his Fantasy Football league. You'd think he walked on the moon.) We went to the Embassy Christmas party, and also hosted a small Christmas Eve extravaganza here in our house.

Our Christmas tree was huge!

We sent the older boys out on Christmas Eve to shovel snow. They thought it was fun!

Abby says "Cheese"

Oh, before we get to Christmas day, I have to tell you what Joel did. He got me GOOD. He threw me a surprise birthday party at a restaurant, and actually surprised me! I was so not in the mood to go out and couldn't think of a decent excuse to get out of it - and besides, who has date night with an 18 month old chaperoning? And lo and behold, when we arrive, there are all my buddies sitting at the table waiting on us. I was such a dork, saying, "Oh isn't that nice that you are all having dinner together?" "Isn't it such a coincidence that we're all at the same restaurant at the same time?" Yeah, I told you I was a dork. It took me a minute or two to get it. Anyway, the restaurant is called Fort Apache and has fabulous American BBQ, in the middle of nowhere in Croatia. I ate some seriously yummy ribs. Who woulda thunk?
Okay, so here are a few Christmas pictures.


I know I've not really written much this post, but I figured you guys rather see the pictures instead of listening to me yack on, anyways. And the reason we have so many great pictures? Santa brought me and Joel a new camera, so we've been "practicing" quite a lot!

Okay, just one more picture that I have to share. Do you see this face? This stinker is what I deal with every day. Yep. We're in trouble.

Till next time!

Love,
Julie, Joel, and Abby